Nisyan Com | Ahlam Mestaghanmi

This book by the famous writer Ahlam Mosteghanemi, who "was ranked among the ten most influential women in the Arab world, and the first in the field of literature to exceed the sales of her books two million and three hundred thousand copies", is "a women's inventory against masculinity, in defense of masculinity, that family that we boast of falling into its fascination." Without her, we would not be females or women.” And conclusions, statements, judgments and advice, no matter how different opinions are in their impact, effect and wisdom, and no matter how varied the reactions to them, their source is honest and rich and stems from experience and field curiosity far from theorizing and theory. With bright flashlights, he reveals all the nooks and crannies of what is going on in the arenas of real large areas.
The writer complains about the disappearance of the masculinity of "men", which means the disappearance of all the good moral and loving qualities that women seek from them, so how can salvation be for a woman in her love for a man? She finds a solution for her and advises her and calls her: “Love him as no woman has loved / Forget him as men forget.” She does not yearn to identify with the “little-loving” men, in their current, condemned image. Like men in oblivion.
The writer mentions many poets, philosophers, and writers, And she cites their sayings and hadiths that strengthen and enrich her subject: “It is impossible to count the number of writers who, through times and civilizations and in all languages, have served as emotional guides for lost lovers in the alleys and side streets of love. I have no such claim. I am just a nurse with only a first aid kit To stop the bleeding of female hearts at parting. “In the end, forgetting is nothing but turning a page from the book of a lifetime,” but the weight of the page may be so heavy that the writer found herself a role in reducing this weight as much as she could, and even turning the page on behalf of the reader. She says modestly and with a noble practical purpose: "Let me try, maybe I can turn this page of yours. For it is easier to turn the page of others."
An interesting, interesting, knowledgeable and controversial book on topics of interest to readers, with many facts and feelings and a lot of conclusions the result of experiments and observation Fieldwork of situations so that any woman, and any man, can benefit from her honesty and realism.